Subject: R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a dilemma. I am 32 and my husband is 43. We have been together 10 years. We have 3 kids together. He has a 13 year old and an 11 year old by two different women. The problem is that both of his kids  are nasty and disrespectful to me. When his children call and I answer the phone, they hang up or breathe on the phone until I hang up. His daughter has blocked her number before to make me think it’s someone else calling my husband.  Both of his children’s mothers can’t stand me… all because they know he is a good man and they feel I took him away from them. I know he is not messing with either one of them. I trust my husband. I have seen letters from one of the kid’s mom, and text messages from the other. They both tell him how much they will always love him and how they desperately wish he would be with them. My husband also tells me how they come on to him when he goes to pick his children up. I have dealt with it for so long thinking they would get over it and stop. When I talk to him about it all he says is he can’t get through to them. He says they are simple and to ignore them. I can’t put up with it much longer. I feel he hasn’t done enough to put a stop to their unwanted behavior. I know they have to have contact because they have children together. I have suggested that my husband change his number and force them to go through his mother to deal with the children. Am I wrong? Do you have any better ideas?

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